Saturday, December 29, 2012

How To Build Self Confidence? Don't Believe In Failure

By Allen I. Cruz


Being confident in life is crucial to having a good life. That's why, if there's anything you must know it's how to build self confidence.I think it's so important that I would like to quickly teach you a strategy I use to achieve great things without ever doubting myself.Self confidence comes with success.The more successful you are, the more confident you'll become.If you want to get a good head start, take something you're already good at and improve on it even more. When you do that, your confidence will grow and you'll have all the power you'll need to achieve whatever you desire. Just do your best.You've probably heard me say this before, but I'll go ahead and say it again, anyway.There's no such thing as failure.


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It is difficult to be self confident when you disrespect yourself like this. And how on earth can you expect others to respect you if you don't respect yourself?It is vitally important that you talk to yourself in a positive manner. Be kind to yourself, treat yourself with the same respect you show to others. What you focus on is what you become so focus on the positive. If you make a mistake - and you will, we all do - then learn from it, find the positive and move on.

ACCEPT YOURSELF AND BELIEVE YOU CAN. This is the first step to self discovery, some guys just keep thinking they would be more confident if they can only add an inch to their height or if they could just change their color or size but the truth is that there is almost nothing you can do about your height, color and size except accepting them as the component of the real you. You are the real you, you just need to accept yourself and the world around you will accept you too.

you don't need to keep feeling disgusted about your skin color or whatever, you need to stop thinking that the guy under the tree is laughing because of your size, he may be laughing at you but that is only when you are laughing at yourself also, walk and talk majestically, like you like yourself, like you know what you are doing, stop looking down on yourself when you talk to people - you are unique.And whatever you believe about yourself, the world would eventually buy it.

Believe in yourself.Have you noticed how in some countries people tie an elephant to a little stick and put a thin piece of rope around its ankle? Have you ever wondered why that animal doesn't just snap free?Well, it's because it doesn't believe it can.See, when an elephant is small, they put it in shackles and attach a strong chain to its leg. Of course at first, the animal pulls at it, jerks and jumps around to set itself free, but then, after some time.it just gives up.

Be Decisive - Take a decision then resolve to follow through with it. Don't look for the approval or permission of others. Make the decision to do something that you want to do and then take action to get it done. Being decisive is part of being a confident, assured person who knows what they want to do and takes action to get it.Start small at first, for example, set a goal to exercise three times a week, changing to a healthier diet or starting the day in a positive manner and then move to bigger goals as your confidence to make decisions and follow through with them improves.




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